New situations, same old stuff

Why cant they see what I see? Certain women friends that is. Why do they keep putting themselves into relationships with bad men? They talk the talk about finding good guys but then keep running towards the ones with obvious "issues". These problems are so evident and yet they cant see it. Ugh so frustrating sometimes. Its hard to watch a trainwreck coming and to just stand helplessly as a bystander. Sometimes I wish I could talk them into that famous Friends situation where I take over decision making for them for a day. Better yet, I wish they could take a step back and see it with new eyes.